I am SAHM, SAHM I am

(Poem written in homage of Dr. Seuss.)

I am SAHM, SAHM I am.

That SAHM I am!

That SAHM I am!

A stay-at-home mom is who I am.

Do you stretch a dollar and pinch pennies?

I do stretch a dollar and pinch pennies.

I even cut coupons to pinch pennies.

Do you carpool to save on gas and time?

I do carpool to save on gas and time.

I even cook and clean all the time.

I am SAHM, SAHM I am.

A stay-at-home mom is who I am.

Would you drive your kids everywhere all day long?

Would you teach them right from wrong?

I do drive my kids everywhere –

To church, grandma’s, and to cut their hair.

I do drive my kids all day through –

From school, soccer, and playdates, too.

I do give them good advice.

I do teach them to be nice.

I do tell them not to shout.

I do tell them not to pout.

Would you choose a career over your kids?

Not today.

Not tomorrow.

Not the next day.

Not any day.

I would not change a thing.

I would not give up a thing.

I am SAHM, SAHM I am.

A stay-at-home mom is who I am.

-- Mimi Hoang Kuehn



FOREVER MY FRIEND

When there were hardships and sorrow, you were there to lend an ear.

When I got into trouble, you made them disappear.

When someone ridiculed me, you were there to defend.

You were there for me because you are forever my friend.

Though we have known each other for only a short time,

We have gained a friendship that lasts more than a lifetime.

Every time I needed you, you were there to the end.

I can always confide in you for you are forever my friend.

You showed me an important lesson, which is always to dream.

You said to always strive for them, no matter how hard it may seem.

You shared your emotions with me and you never kept them pent.

These are the reasons why you are forever my friend.

I am so sad to have heard of the tragic news,

The news of death that was laid upon you.

I will forever miss you for I will never see you again,

But you will remain with me forever, my friend.

– Mimi Hoang Kuehn

As a mom, I'm still learning my "ABC" (A Busy Child)

One of the first things we teach our children is their ABCs. As our children learn, we as parents are learning as well. What I've learned most from my busy children is the ability to LAUGH (Listen, Appreciate, Understand, Give, and Help).

For example, I had written an alphabet story (see below) for my little girl. I hope to give this to her on her birthday so that she and I can read it together. I want her to not only know the alphabet, but also remember the words so that she won't ever forget how amazed I am of her and her brothers.

(Note: the silouhette images are partially created from stock images.)

Misses Dad

Stock photo

As you serve your country miles away, 
your son and daughter were born today.
They wear their booties while you wear your boots.
You'd be so proud of your new recruits.

Your kids' milestones and funny mistakes 
were videotaped along the way. 
They always wish you are here
to cheer them on and ease their fears.

It's tough being Mrs. Dad 
when you are deployed to face combat. 
I do what I can to fill your boots, 
but it's already tough being mom, too.

Camping out in the yard beneath the stars 
feels lonely knowing that you are far. 
Kids going on dates or off to college. 
They could have used your daddy knowledge.

When you come home it's a dream come true. 
We cherish every second spent with you. 
Hugs are tighter and smiles are wider. 
Our hearts are full and so much lighter.

You hate missing birthdays and graduations.
Not to mention anniversaries and vacations. 
Your duty is to defend our great nation. 
Your devotion to us is an inspiration.

Now you're gone, it's harder than before. 
Not sure how it's possible, but we miss you more. 
You won't be giving your little girl away, 
or being the Best Man on your son's big day.

It's tough being Mrs. Dad 
when you are deployed to face combat. 
I do what I can to fill your boots, 
but it's really tough when I miss you, too. 
You will always be a hero who gave his all 
To his family and his country, above all.

-- Mimi Hoang Kuehn

This has been and continues to be an incredible week, with my mom's birthday two days ago, and Father's Day in a couple of days. Also, I learned it's Marines Week and Cleveland is chosen to host a week of celebrating Marines. Although I am not a military wife, I can only imagine how difficult it is to share your husband with your country. I wrote the above poem (possibly turning it into a song) with all of our armed forces and their families in mind. Thank you to all of you.

Please take the time to thank a service man or woman. For those who are military wives or moms, I'd love to hear your stories on how you are Mrs. Dad to your kids.

Making Memories - Then and Now

The first poem was given to Rob shortly afer our engagement.

Memories of you and me

Moonlit walks along the beach move us one step closer within.

Each song you guess correctly assures me you do listen.

Many macarenas and limbo dancing turn us toward the right direction.

Olympic torch lighting in Cleveland warms me up to your affections.

Rock and Roll Hall of Fame and Hornblowers exhibit loud and clear of your charm.

Indians games at Stonis slide me safe into your arms.

Each candle that we light sparks new dreams to come true.

Staring up at the airplanes heightens my appreciation for you.

The second poem was given to Rob in his birthday card recently.

Memories of you and me, plus three

Moonlit pacing with a colic baby and working the next day.

Each lullaby is sung until babies are sleeping away.

Many sleepless nights but more milestones to date.

Olympic-sized tantrums that don’t go away.

Rock and Roll music being played as our kids are born.

Indians and Browns games on the couch with our newborns.

Each candle that we light is another child’s birthday to celebrate.

Staring at our kids makes me appreciate each day.


How have your memories changed since having kids? More importantly, how have you changed as a person since becoming a parent?

Potty Book Pages - 1 thru 4

The journey of the potty begins . . .



Vote for the title of my children's potty book

Hi, everyone -

I am nearing the end of finishing my book. Could you help me select which of the three titles below you like best? Or if you have suggestions for a title, please send along your ideas, too.

Thanks in advance! Until then, I hope to get this book ready for publishing really soon. I will be posting some of the pages on my blog in the next few days so come visit again to check them out.